Don't Waste Time
Don't waste time thinking back to what you could have done differently. Keep your eyes on the road ahead and do it differently now. ~Karen Salmansohn
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| 2012 July 6 |
I've made plenty of mistake in my life with love. In the past I would look back to see what I would have done differently, but lately I've had more positive outlook on life and love. That if I put all my effort into each situations I should not worry about it cause I've put all my effort into it. Thus I most look ahead and do it differently like the author above had mention.
Love with all my heart and live every moment God has given to me and everything will be fine.
posted by BIGGS @ 9:39 PM
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10 Comments:
Sometimes moving forward can be so slow. For example, after having said goodbye to my Love, can you believe it's only been almost a week, but feels like it's been months?---WW
How long has it been since you and this person left each other(a whole week)? Sorry to hear that you let go of your Love or say goodbye to this person. This person must be someone special, but not enough for you to whether it out. BTW, I love this song by Christina Perri, "A Thousand Years" maybe it can help you cope with your loss. Imagine you have to wait for this person for a thousand years, how painful it would be?
The thought of waiting a thousand years is kind of painful at this time (it might not be, if and when I get over this person). My Love is a special person. I think it's unfair to say/imply that he's not special enough and that's why I couldn't weather it out with him. If that's true, then I guess I wasn't special enough for him to weather it out with me.
It's interesting you posted that you put all of your effort into each situation. That was what my Love also said to me too, the last time I saw him. Yet, he never even asked if I would be with him. Instead, he told me that he saw me in my element, thought that I was happiest in my element, and he decided that it was best that we end things. He thought that he put all of his effort into our situation, but I don't think he did. Oh well . . . I'm sure you would have done differently, right?---WW
Maybe he never ask you because he felt you were happy in your element, thought you may never change or leave with him? I don't really know you or yours, but it looks like you have unsolved issues with this person. You should have some closure prior to moving on or do something about it?
Biggs, maybe you are right. Maybe I might still have unresolved issues with my Love. Maybe I do need closure because he left so too quickly from my life. At the same time, I don't know how to formally say good bye to him. Maybe his quick exit is best for the both of us. Between the two of us, I really think it's my Love who would not change for me (even if I sacrificed my whole world for him).---WW
WW, you'll never know since you didn't have the proper closure with him. B
So what would you suggest I do Biggs?---WW
WW- I'm not a counselor so I don't think it would be such a good idea for me to give or suggest or advice you. Beside, I don't know your lovers side of the story. I need to have walked in both shoes to help, but again I may not be much of a help for you.
Biggs, that's a sucky answer. You may not know me and my beau, but you've only been giving me advice all along. Whatevers!---WW
My advice to you is to find him! Let him know what are your expectation, needs, wants, and where you stand! I'm pretty sure by the sound of it, your love is a special person that would understand you and would do whatever he could help you and love you to have a closure or not. I think he's in love with you too? Biggs
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